Five Truths That Will Make You Fall In Love With Being Single
Whether you’ve been single for a while or it came unexpectedly, it’s a time ripe with conflicting emotions. You will sometimes feel joy about being free from an unsatisfying or painful relationship.
You will also feel sad about missing an intimate connection with a partner. Undoubtedly, you will feel every emotion in between, too.
All of these points on the emotional spectrum are perfectly normal, even essential, for making the most of your time being single in preparation for your soulmate relationship. The following five truths will not only help you heal but they will remind you to honor, celebrate and fall in love with this precious time.
TRUTH: Life Is Unfolding Perfectly And There’s A Bigger Purpose For You Right Now.
Even though it won’t necessarily feel that what you’re going through is the right thing, this affirmation is a beautiful reminder that you don’t need to always understand the big picture and have all of the answers. If you did then wouldn’t you just be living perfectly now without anything to look forward to?
Life would be very predictable if that was the case. The message here is that even if you’re experiencing heartbreak, it may actually be beneficial for guiding you where you need to be. It’s the ultimate little nudge that it’s important to surrender your plans and be open to what’s in store instead.
“…IT’S IMPORTANT TO SURRENDER YOUR PLANS AND BE OPEN TO WHAT’S IN STORE INSTEAD.”
TRUTH: This Time Single Is Only Temporary, So Lavish In Your Independence.
Though right now your next relationship might appear far off, the truth is that this time will fly and someday – maybe soon – you will no longer be single. Even though you will be happy, you may reminisce about the time when you could just do whatever you wanted, whenever you wanted to. The days when your life was simple, uncomplicated, and free of the ties that inevitably come with a relationship will be a thing of the past. This piece of wisdom gives you unbounded permission to enjoy being single to the fullest.
TRUTH: You’re Growing Personally And Learning To Love Wholly Now In Preparation For Partnership.
The best time to prepare for a meaningful relationship is before you begin to date. If you use this time to hone in on your deepest values and nurture all of the relationships in your life, you’ll find that you will more easily attract a harmonious relationship to you. This statement affirms that love is not so much about a person but rather a way of life and that you don’t need to wait for romantic love to start perfecting it now.
“…LOVE IS NOT SO MUCH ABOUT A PERSON BUT RATHER A WAY OF LIFE…”
TRUTH: Your Last Relationship Didn’t Work Out So You Could Be Available For Your Soulmate.
Once you’ve embraced all the joys of being single, then you’re ready to honestly assess your past relationships with fresh eyes. You might realize that a long-term connection with previous partners may not have worked out because you need to be physically and emotionally available to your soulmate instead. This truth suggests you appreciate the past but keep looking forward. Your best relationship lies ahead.
TRUTH: You’re Now Holding Out For Nothing Less Than Your Soulmate.
Of course, you could be in a relationship. You could settle to just pass the time with someone, but you’re not because you’re worthy of much more. This message is the ultimate declaration of your worth. You love yourself more than the temporary satisfaction of jumping into an entanglement to simply check off the “in a relationship” box. If necessary, place this truth on your mirror to see it daily.
“READ AND LIVE THESE PIECES OF WISDOM DAILY SO YOU CAN FALL IN LOVE WITH BEING SINGLE.”
These statements aren’t simple wishes that you’re making in order to fill a void. They are truths proclaiming that your time single is a powerful period of healing, strengthening, enjoying, growing, and loving. Read and live these pieces of wisdom daily so you can fall in love with being single. VIGOROUS
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